Want to be Closer to Allah, But Don't Know How!

O God, please purify my heart!

With the name of Allah, Most Gracious, Most Merciful~

By  Raya Shokatfard Editor in Chief—readingislam.com

In many Islamic circles or presentations, I am asked a similar question from my brothers and sisters: "I want to get closer to Allah, but don't know how; or I don't have the power to do it. Sometimes I can succeed in getting close to Him when I spend time with pious friends who are affecting me, but when they are no longer around, I lose that closeness. I become powerless."   Allah, the Exalted is the Best to respond to this concern: "When My servants ask thee concerning Me, I am indeed close (to them): I listen to the prayer of every suppliant when he calls on Me: let them also, with a will, listen to My call, and believe in Me: that they may walk in the right way."  -Sura Al-Baqarah (2):186 As Muslims, we believe in the Word of Allah, then should we not believe in the above verse? Of course we want to believe, but what truly keeps us from believing it in our hearts and feeling it when we make supplications? If we can imagine there is a beautiful scenery in front of us, but there is also a curtain or veil between us and the scene. We can have a glimpse of the beauty on the other side, but not all. We want to see it all, but we keep sitting in our place and do not get up to move the curtain aside so we can have a full view. Removing the veil or curtain takes the following efforts: First, there must be a desire; Second, the knowhow; Third, keeping it open for full view at all times. Sometimes people think of wanting to be close to Allah, but the desire is not strong enough. Faith is like a seed. It must be planted in fertile soil and watered. It is a process that would take time and determination. To begin with, we must observe the most important duty Allah has prescribed to us, Actions must lead to the cleansing of the heart of all that is displeasing to Allah. This might not be easy, especially for the younger generation. which is devotion and worship. This is the first step for achieving closeness to Allah.   In a Qudsi hadith the Prophet reported that Allah says, "..my servant does not come closer to Me with anything more dear to Me than that which I made obligatory upon him. My servant keeps coming closer to Me with more volunteer deeds, until I love him. When I love him, I become His ear by which he hears, his eyes by which he sees, his hand by which he holds and his foot by which he walks. If he asks Me anything I shall give him. If he seeks My protection I shall grant him My protection… "(Al-Bukhari 6021) While performing correct worship, one must choose the way to piety and righteousness mentioned in the hadith; a major step of getting closer to Him the Almighty. The person who has taqwa or piety, is the one who is foremost in doing good and wants to be ahead of others in goodness. "And the foremost are the foremost. These are they who are drawn nigh (to Allah). In the gardens of bliss." -Sura Al-Waqi`ah (56):10-12 He remembers his humility in front of Allah, and knows he can call on Him with hope and fear. He desires much closeness to Him. "Call on your Lord with humility and in private: for Allah loves not those who trespass beyond bounds. Do no mischief on the earth, after it hath been set in order, but call on Him with fear and longing (in your hearts): for the Mercy of Allah is (always) near to those who do good." -Sura Al-A`raf (7):55-56 Naturally, this person also knows that charity is another way to bring him closer to his Creator, for Allah loves those who give to the needy from their wealth and hates the hard fisted. In a Qudsi hadith the Prophet reported that Allah says, "Allah will say on the Day of Judgment, ... O son of Adam, I asked you for food and you fed Me not. He will say: O Lord, and how should I feed You when You are the Lord of the worlds? He will say: Did you not know that My servant so and so asked you for food and you fed him not? Did you not know that had you fed him you would surely have found that with Me? O son of Adam, I asked you to give Me to drink and you gave Me not to drink. He will say: O Lord, how should I give You to drink when You are the Lord of the worlds? He will say: My servant so and so asked you to give him to drink and you gave him not to drink. Had you given him to drink you would have surely found that with Me." (HR. Muslim) This person does all right deeds in order to bring himself closer to his Creator. If he does all this and still does not feel as close to Allah as he wants then he might look at his environment and those he befriends and the condition of his lifestyle. Are his/her friends neglectful of Allah and often engage in idle talk or activities which Allah dislike? Are members of his family busy spending most of their time at home in front of TV watching programs Allah dislikes and he participates with them? Are friends and family the cause of his weakness in religion? Is he/she dressed properly according to Islamic mose of dress as he/she likes?  The influence of a close friend is greater than one can imagine. One must take heed who he chooses as a close friend. Knowing our tendencies to incline to people and the worldly life, Allah warns us not to get side tracked. "O ye who believe let not your riches or your children divert you from the Remembrance of Allah if any act thus, the loss is their own." -Sura Al-Munafiqun (63):9 Actions must lead to the cleansing of the heart of all that is displeasing to Allah. This might not be easy, especially for the younger generation. Yet they must remember they are the torchbearers of Islam and they are the ones who can influence their peers better than older people. What a better blessing is it than one knowing that he is doing all he can to gain the pleasure of his Creator? "Thus, then, if he be of those Nearest to Allah, there is for him Rest and Satisfaction, and a Garden of Delights. -Sura Al-Waqi`ah (56):88-89" To maintain closeness with Allah, besides the above recommendations, one may engage in Dhikr or remembrance of Allah as often as one can  "O ye who believe remember Allah very often and glorify Him morning and evening. " -Sura Al-Ahzab (33):41-42 Dhikr empties the heart and the mind of impurities and brings a meaningful satisfaction to one's life. "Behold in the Remembrance of Allah do hearts find satisfaction."  - Sura Ar-Ra`d (13): 28 Finally, since we believe in the Word of Allah, we find the solution of closeness to our Creator is given to us by Him. "Therefore remember Me, I will remember you." -Sura Al-Baqarah (2):125 Source: http://www.islamonline.net/servlet/Satellite?c=Article_C&cid=1239888393624&pagename=Zone-English-Living_Shariah/LSELayout#**1